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The only thing she will say is to leave her alone & that I'm smothering her, which I admit, I kind of am.
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Stop smothering her.
You can't control whether or not she can get over whatever she found out about your past.
By continuing to contact her, though, you are giving her reasons
from the present to stay away from you.
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I think she suffers from dismissive avoidant attachment.
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Suppose that this is true. What do you think an avoidant person will do when someone continually tries in an unwelcome manner to get close to them?
Show her some respect. She asked you to leave her alone. Do what she asked you to do.