Double...I've been thinkng about you, and I like what Raynaadi and Soidhonia had to say to you. Much like, Ray, I lost my virginity at 21 after being a "good girl" brought up in a strict Christian family. I went kind of wild after that, and looking back on it, often marvel that I'm still alive! I've had some very bad scrapes, with stalkers and users and players...Nothing is to be gained emotionally from "casual sex," and the risks of STD's and pregnancy aren't worth it!
Love yourself!
Patty