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With him disclosing his feelings, at this point, worries me.... You would think it would scare them more because you know the rules...

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happyflowergirl, I am surprised since you are studying to be a T that you do not know that therapist self-disclosure is a therapeutic technique frequently used in psychotherapy. There is no "rule" against it. In fact, it is very common in some forms of psychotherapy and can be very powerful. For example, my T is eclectic with a strong humanist component. Self-disclosure is common among humanistic psychologists and used by those with other therapeutic approaches as well. Perhaps you will cover this information later in your studies.

pink, I understood the intention of your original post very well. You are an excellent written communicator. I was thrilled for you that you had reached the point in therapy where your therapist was able to self disclose. (((hugs)))