Moonkin, it would be so hard to finally go to see a new T (always stressful!) and then have her take a 3 week break so soon. I hope you can keep busy with other things and that the time will pass quickly for you.

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I've caught on that therapists tell you bluntly generally and that scares me...because most of the time they tell me whats wrong..which I know...rather then help find a way to fix the problem

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My own T operates from a position of health rather than one of pathology. He has never given me a diagnosis and I have never asked for one. He believes that each person, within herself, knows the unique path to healing for herself. He helps me discover that and accompanies me along the way. So don't be disturbed if your T doesn't give you a diagnosis. They don't all believe in that. And if you really want one, you can always ask, but it seems to me from what you've written that you know already what you would like to work on.

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Wow..20 views nothing...I must be coldly different in situations.

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Moonkin, don't be disturbed by this. This happens to everyone. There are many people on PC who just lurk and don't post.