My blind date yesterday went well, I think. He seems to be a nice guy, very intelligent, and does appear to be a doctor. I would be okay with seeing him again to learn more about him/each other, BUT! he has a libido bigger than Asia! (BTW, he's Chinese) Now what?

He also wants our next visit to be today at my place--Well, you all know that I have no place but my car. I didn't know how to tell him.

I am very uneasy with things he says about being sexual. It's like he wants a relationship, but the primary objective is sex. I saw a lot of red flags yesterday.

I understand that there is a mild language problem, too. He speaks very good English, but there are times when translation is a slightly off, but understandable and easily deciferable.

He did kiss me (several times!) though I didn't really return the favor. I have to admit though, he wasn't bad. He also gave a very nice mini knee massage when briefly discussing my surgery. My history and I guess PTSD let me put up with his kissing and sexual talk. He asked me if I'd thought about it much, and I told him honestly that "No, it's not important to me/don't care about it/think about it much". I can be okay with hand holding just meeting someone, but not this other stuff. I don't know what to do about him now. Ideas? Dump him or keep him?