I totally disagree with everyone else. Employment is not some kind of intimate detail one needs to hold on to

I am really surprised you guys didn't discuss what you do for a living when yo first started talking. Isn't one of the first thing comes up in a conversation?

On most dating sites the first thing is in profile is what you do included retired or unemployment. Personally I would want to know. It is not something terribly personal.

And if the person asks you what you do for a living saying "it is too personal" it is weird to me. It's not personal but just every day kind of thing. If you are on disability then just say so. I believe people need to know. People also have rights to reject someone based on what they do or don't do for a living. It is their right. Withholding info is wrong because it's like trying to get person hooked making sure they get attached before they know facts. That's wrong

Also due to crazy scamming nowadays and Danger of online dating withholding info where one works is a red flag. If I ask a man where he works and he tells he can't say then it is the deal breaker for me. I am dating someone now I met online. I told him I was scammed before so he gave me much info before we met and on
A first date showed me his driver license and his work ID and whatever else he had. If he told me it is too personal I'd be gone immediately

You don't have to give out info but by that token he has rights to withhold facts too. I don't know how ok you are with that. It could be very dangerous

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk