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Old Jul 29, 2015, 11:57 AM
l00king4answers79 l00king4answers79 is offline
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Originally Posted by healingme4me View Post
It really doesn't sound like it's you that needs to change. It sounds like he's inadequate in maintaining a healthy relationship. Cancellation of plans frequently, it's not encouraging to read about. It's not displaying commitment to the relationship. And now it's eating away at you, leaving you questioning if it's you and asking yourself how you can change. No need to excuse this under the label of agoraphobia, it's up to him to work through this to maintain his relationship with you. Leave you feeling special instead of flawed.

Thanks for the advise!

The thing is, when we are together, he's so sweet and does make me feel special! I try to be understanding because his life has not been easy, he's gone through a lot.

He really does work hard to make up for the times he cancels, idk.... I think it is just me, I'm just so insecure to begin with. I'm hoping with time comes more security.

Thank you.