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Originally Posted by rr13
Again, I'm not asking why something has happened, but asking what the lesson was I'm supposed to learn so I don't keep repeating it. If I don't learn the lesson, I will keep repeating the same situations over and over again until I learn them. I feel like I'm going in circles because I think I learn the lesson, but then find myself in the same situation years later, so I obviously didn't learn the right lesson.
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Aww shucks. I guess that's why we need therapists to help us see the whole picture, see what we are missing when we set out to change?
I was watching Extreme Weight loss last night, a lady at 304 lbs or so and with issues of needing men to approve of her and wanting to get away from that... and what did she do? Began a relationship with someone while she was at the rehab center!!! The host quickly confronted her. Sometimes that rut is really deep.