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Old Jul 29, 2015, 05:32 PM
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Originally Posted by hankster View Post
Ooh - new thread? I saw a t one time who i nicknamed Crabcakes.

The DBT thing i liked the most and probably found the most useful - used it a few times today as a matter of fact - is the idea of "it shouldnt be this way" "but it IS this way" lather rinse repeat accept You sound good
The name Crabcakes isn't making me feel sure that she was a great therapist

Interested in that DBT thing. Can you give an example?..

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Originally Posted by BudFox View Post
True enough, though I think in some situations where the C develops an attachment or dependency or enters into an area of "primary vulnerability", it can be hard to fire the T even if they do stink.
Agree for sure.

I always felt pretty confident in my ability to spot a total bullsh#tter, and I really failed with my old therapist. Precisely because when I go into therapy, I make an effort to remove all my preconceptions and to be open to seeing things another way.
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Thanks for this!
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