I am totally unaware of what to do with online dating. I feel like it would be so hard to feel comfortable meeting someone I had not chatted and phoned for several months. Maybe it might be a good time to find out intentions if that is possible and still be somewhat discreet. I like the idea of needing more time let's talk on the phone. If they say no that is a sign to me that they want to step on the gas and you sound like you want to put on the brakes.

I would stay in comfort zone and have more time talking if it were me. But it is your call. What are you think of?