One of my main problems is that I just hate the way I look. I feel objectified and im a male. It seems to be getting more common (fifty shades of grey, magic mike, etc.) I probably have worse body image issues than females. Women only seem to want the 6'4" perfect face, perfect abs, tan clear skin, male. All these people over the internet say that that's an ideal male, and that they want a male with a large penis, too. Women have fantasies about being taken advantage of and having rough sex, yet they contradict themselves and say they want a "confident" man, whatever that means, and because I don't measure up to that standard, I feel sick, ugly, disgusting, and emotional pain inside. And the whole thing today with feminism angers me. So women can say they want a handsome tall men with a large penis, yet men are called materialistic when they want a physically attractive women? And when women say they have fantasies of getting sexually dominated by these types of men, they aren't being materialistic or superficial? Everyone seems like a hypocrite these days. That's like me saying I don't want a woman because her breasts aren't large enough. It's just a huge contradiction because women don't tell men what they really want. Why do you think 95% of women read fifty shades of grey?