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Old Jul 30, 2015, 08:30 AM
musinglizzy musinglizzy is offline
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I feel a lot of negative things, but one thing I do know is that my T's care doesn't shut off after the session. She'll text/email a check in, and tells me what makes her think of me outside of session.

However, my T also is typically in a rush to get out after our session too. It's the same days/times, and usually she has to pick her daughter up, or rush her to an appt or something...so she watched the clock and at times has rushed me out, but even on times she doesn't, she watches the clock. I used to see it as "yikes, she's bored!" But I've learned to view the clock watching as her way to help me in my mood/emotions to leave "in a better place," by determining how much time we have, and where I am at that time. And of course watching the clock as not to start a heavy topic with only a few minutes left. Thinking of it that way, does that help? By the way, Happy Birthday T!
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