Staying with an abusive person is never healthy for you nor letting your child grow up with all that chaos. Children know more than most people give them credit for. You don't want your child to think that the relationship there parents have is the way it is suppost to be.

Do you have a therapist or someone you can lean on so you can make healthy choices for you and your child.

Him having Bipolar isn't an excuse to be abusive, he needs to take responsibility for his actions, mental illness or not. Sucking human is sucky no matter the reason.

I have Bipolar myself.. Yes I have come off the rails a couple times but I got myself help pronto !