And that's exactly why I say I hope he dies soon. I'm not saying it to be mean, hateful or bitter. I'm saying it because it's true. He's had more chances to make his life better than anyone should, and he's turned down every single chance. He doesn't want to get better, he just wants what he wants and when he wants it. And he'll lie and steal from anyone to get it. That's why they have the death penalty for some criminals. My brother has never broken the law, but he treats people with the same lack of respect and decency that killers do. He's left nothing but a path of misery and stress in his life. He does absolutely nothing to contribute to society, he's never held a job for more than a few months, he never thinks of anyone but himself and he isn't sorry for anything he's done. He only calls my parents when he needs money and he'll lie to get it. I just wish my parents had the courage to cut him off. I really worry what it's doing to their health. They're in their early 80's and all this stress isn't good for them.....or for me.