I was confused if that's even the sane situation. You are referring to her as your gf and saying she shut down yet in the other thread you said she broke up with you, she isn't your gf anymore and not wanting to speak to someone you previously dated isn't "shutting down". It is normal course of action. I thought you are taking about two different women.

Also in one thread you primarily blaming her and even try diagnose her but in this thread you are saying you pretty much stalked her.

I don't know if you are in therapy but such strong attachment and such poor judgement is something to explore and hopefully heal
T

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