First of all you clearly weren't telling each other everything. She found out things by googling you and finding your pills. So clearly you were not sharing everything

Second of all texting emailing or even skyping before you meet the first time isn't a real relationship. People could create the whole entire different persona. Which in fact happened. You both discovered that you just aren't a match so clearly you were strangers when you first met

Third of all having sex first time you see someone is dangerous not only because of std but the person might turn out violent or what not, it's no matter that you talked on the phone

Then many people do online long distance dating and I did too but when men go visit a woman the first time and there are children at home no one goes and stays in woman's house! Men stay in a hotel. No one feels like their children like your own after first time they meet. It takes time. If a man met my daughter once and said we are "his girls" and he feels he is like dotting father I would run fast!!!! I am surprised you find it all ok, do you have children?

You both showed poor judgement. We all do at times. I did too! I got involved wAy too fast on several occasions. Learn the lesson and there is someone out there for you.just isn't this woman

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