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Old Jul 30, 2015, 01:29 PM
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Originally Posted by IzzyMarie View Post
Take what I say with a grain of salt, because I constantly want to punch my mom in the face... I know it's hard to see when we deal with our anger. She's only making herself look bad. If you blow up on her at his wedding not only is his wedding ruined, but you look bad. Let her make herself look bad and be there to support your brother.
I understand. That is just the biggest trigger in my entire life and mind, is anyone messing with my brother. And she knows it, too. She's not above hurting person A to try to hurt person B. She's just such a sack of ****. When my first boyfriend committed suicide, she was smirking about it and being very cocky describing how his friends came by the house to see me. She revels in others' suffering. I'm just very riled up and conflicted. She's never been exposed for what she is. She has more faces than she has hairs on her head. And after all these years, my brother is finally starting to see her for what she really is. So it's validating but horrible at the same time. I'd rather not have validation than get it like this. This is also a new development. She never goes after my brother, she's never stooped this low before. She's either getting desperate or bolder, or both. Based on my experiences, I've always known she doesn't like either of us dating someone. We are 'hers', her property, and she doesn't like sharing. But I never thought she would treat him this way, so bold and shamelessly. I just feel that part of me baring its teeth.