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Originally Posted by ruh roh
The crack about lying would bug me because of his making a comparison where there was none. Your first therapist said he wouldn't see you if you saw another one at the same time, but this one didn't put any sort of condition on it so there was no question of having to withhold information. Besides, you told him up front about the first one. The issue of lying or not lying to him isn't even relevant. So maybe he's trying to be funny...but it comes across as insincere? I find that a lot of problems or concerns I have with other people comes from having really different ways of communicating.
(thanks to lolagrace for getting me to post this in the right place)
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Yes that's exactly why it bothered me, and that's what I said to him, that I didn't even know what his stance was so as far as I was concerned I wouldn't have to lie to him. That's why it sounded like insecurity, like he was fishing for me to reassure him that I would treat him how I would treat T1, even though, like you said, there's no comparison to make. If it was meant to be a joke I don't get it!
Thanks so much for validating the way I felt about this, I'm glad you don't think I'm overreacting.