Hi waterknob,
Sounds like
lots of possible options,
and like it could be confusing!!!

And you know maybe there is
no wrong answer as to what you should do despite any "pitfalls" e.g. if the touring job doesn't pay much then at least you'd get to be doing something you really wanted to do and then a little more focus on the business.........if you weren't earning at college then maybe some free time to plough into the business/and more time with your husband..........
But any combination has the potential to be good??
Maybe try writing out a pro's and con's list for everything??
Just with the possible jobs you could go for (if they're part of the list) make sure you know all about what they entail, hey??

But I'd say that it can be important to go with your heart as well..........so if any one of those things stand out to you when you're considering them, you could probably work around any problems with practicalities
if there were any, right??
Just some thoughts..........
Alison