Perspective might help a tiny bit. The way she is as a therapist is not the way she interacts with her kids or husband, I'd imagine. True they get to be with her everyday but her time spent with you is fully focused on you. Realistically it wouldn't be that way if you spent time with her in real life. That being said, it sounds like you get to see her way too infrequenty. I used to burn some of that energy for longing for t by working on projects to give her. Like cards, art or craft work. I hope you find some ways to help you through this rough patch.