Talking for 4 hours with an individual (I don't care where he is from or what his ethnic background is) does not constitute a friendship nor a face to face meeting!!

He may be interesting to you, but that in no way implies that he is safe. Anyone can be exactly what they are not online. It takes a lot of time and patience to get to really know someone, and the online situation gives very little information to individuals.

For someone to say they want to help you with your illness that is NOT a doctor or therapist is a huge red flag, not to mention the other things you talk about.

I agree with everyone who posted so far. Avoid him like the plague!!!

Be safe dear one.....take good care of YOU!!!

Hugssss
J