I didn't see what I said as rude. I do, however, see "move along elsewhere" as fairly rude. I'm sorry you don't understand where I am coming from and why I didn't want to answer questions... Most of my life I have been treated as the messed up girl to quiz on the dark side. I thought I expressed why I didn't want to do that here. This is not welcoming. I am okay with not finding an answer to my question but do you really want to criticize new members for trying? Where else should we go and who are you to tell people to go elsewhere?
I do not blame people for putting me in the victim role or assuming that it is a matter of being or not being forced. I'm just not into explaining the realities of that world. I lived it. I've spent years explaining... I'm tired.