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april15 said:A client hearing this might fear hurting the therapist in the future if not "connecting". Or a client might feel worried about expressing anger.

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My therapist discloses too. Yes, sometimes I worry about hurting my therapist's feelings. Sometimes I worry about expressing anger to him. I've told him that, and he and I talk about it and why I feel concerned about taking care of other people's feelings. It's a therapeutic technique that he uses to help me learn to have my own voice and to become closer to people. It's a common measure in therapy.

I'm always grateful when my therapist speaks in terms of "we." It helps me feel the connection better, and he's more able to help me.

There are different styles of therapy and some may not be beneficial to everyone. This does not make them dangerous. If you are uncomfortable with a therapist who discloses, then seek one who does not.

Sidony