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Originally Posted by Northern88
I just wish I could forget about her like that and just see her as my health visitor and nothing more. It didn't help when she text me saying
I respect you for the person you are and I do care about what happens to you. I know what emptyness feels like which is why I work so hard to fil that space. Your going to come through this a stronger person for it.
and then she ignores me I dont understand.
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Sounds like she was feeling emotional and bit off more than she could chew. Maybe she has dysfunctions, too. A lot of people do, really, in all walks of life. Hell some people go into the medical field for codependency reasons or to otherwise try to fill some need in their life, even if it's just the need to be needed. Maybe she realized she broke a boundary and got too personal, and now she's backing off quickly. Who knows. But it's best to think about what is healthy for you.