Thanks for all the replies they really help understand what is expected on this web site, all sites seem to be different.

The only thing I would like to say it that if you see someone who is new, and they don't respond in a way you like, it is okay to tell them nicely, after all they did respond to your post, and they were trying to help.

But instead I felt I was ganged up on, and when I was trying to help, makes me not want to post again. It seems like being supportive should go both ways, and how you respond to people who were trying to help, should also be respectful too.

Thanks everyone, I guess I need to be more careful in what I say. I can do that. I am a little gunshy about posting right now, so I will just read for awhile.