I'm sorry you felt ganged up on happyflowergirl.

I'm in no way condoning that you should have been ganged up on, but I do know that many times if people feel threatened by a post in response to an issue they are having, they will let you know in no uncertain terms how they feel, and others will back them up (friendships are formed here) But you are right, respectfulness should be a two way street!

Try to chalk this up to a learning experience. I think once you read and get to know some of the folks here through their postings, you will figure out what can be said to who and in what way.

Of course if you have any questions you are always welcome to ask in pm a mod/admin for assistance.

Take good care!
Hugss
J