That would be very weird for me to hear early in therapy. I just remember my therapist, nearly every time I saw her for the first six months or so, asking me how therapy or the relationship was working for me. She really wanted to know. She kept telling me that she is not perfect, and that if I didn't tell her if something was going wrong, then she would not be able to fix it. I'll never forget the day she said "I've got to be able to trust that you will tell me if there is anything about this relationship that's not working. If you will tell me, then we will work it out together." That was huge for me. And the main thing is that it wasn't about her at all. It was all focused on me. Not how she felt, or whether things were working for her. It was an amazing way to handle me, that's for sure. I'd have freaked out if she had told me she felt connected to me.