It's interesting to me that you seem to want to convince someone that maybe the rules shouldn't have to apply to you even though it won't change your situation. Actually nobody can change your situation, so what do you hope to hear? If your feelings are worth it, then wait the 2 years, yah? The rules are there because they need to be, for the majority of the client population who is vulnerable to T abuse. Just because you feel like your situation is an exception doesn't mean the rules shouldn't be there.

So maybe you stumbled onto true love in therapy. If it's true, then you just gotta roll with it. Circumstances happen in love and true love is supposed to be able to outlast them.