What do I mean by having the same belief system?
--If you are Catholic, Lutheran, Jewish, Protestant, Amish, etc--

My therapist is also my Rabbi = we have the same spiritual/ belief system.
It was definitely what was missing from all of my other therapy sessions:
the spiritual component.

It was also what was missing in all of my previous relationships.

If your therapy sessions are not working--have you tried searching for someone who has the same spiritual/ religious belief system as you?

Also, if your previous relationships did not work--have you considered honestly searching for a partner that has the same belief system/ spirituality/ religion as you do?