I'm a masculinely identified (meaning that I prefer he pronouns over she ones because they feel more right, though I also love they if one knows how to use it without getting confused) agender person. I have heat sensitivity issues and mild scoliosis, and at the moment I only have one binder that's comfortable for my back, but even that one is too hot to wear regularly, so I normally just stick to sports bras. I love wearing dresses and skirts, but I honestly feel more like a femme presenting guy wearing them than as the girl everyone around me seems to see. It's really frustrating that I can't seem to get anyone to respect my gender identity without being all the way male in their eyes. I plan to eventually get top surgery (I have hated my breasts since the moment they started to grow in, and I have a phobia of surgery that I need to confront, so it seems like the best option for me), and I'm thinking about starting testosterone so that I can appear more masculine and balance out my taste in clothing (my ideal would look like a feminine crossdressing male to the public eye). But, for right now, very few people seem to actually remember when I tell them I'm a he or a they, not a she. Only my best friend and my mom (she's been trying to just use my name instead of any pronouns at all, which I like) seem to use the right pronouns for me. -sigh-