No, I don't. But my bf is pretty darn good at getting me there, 9/10 times is a success. He knows my spots and the techniques that I like. And I'm not good (at all) about expressing my enjoyment. He is just very good at reading me, I think. Meaning: picking up on me shifting positions, breathing patterns changing, etc.

I am making an effort to let myself simply enjoy feeling ____ as well. Before Eric, I was always too focused on pleasing the guy to enjoy most everything. Slowing down and letting myself feel helps a lot.

Very best wishes to you!