No, YOU are wrong. I HAVE had violence directed at me, I HAVE been kicked out of places, I HAVE had all kinds of hate and prejudice thrown at me, in public, for being a lesbian and starting a conversation with another woman in order to determine if she is gay and might be interested. Oh yeah, and that was in San Francisco, where I'm from. So, no, obviously, it is not easier to be a lesbian or a woman. Wow, you really are entitled if you think that!!!

Would copies of my hospital records from being beaten up for TALKING to another woman help you believe that it's real? oh, and she actually was interested. however, her brother was not so keen on the idea.