The only thing I've given new T so far is a box of tissues simply because she didn't have any for 2 weeks. She told me that she normally doesn't accept gifts, but she'll accept the tissues. I told her she needs to loosen up a little because even my Pdoc lets me give her gifts. She agreed that she would accept gifts that had no monetary value

I have given my Pdoc a survival kit and a jar of marbles (in case she "loses" hers). I gave ex-T a painting, a crocheted blanket, flowers, and a survival kit.

I do not give gifts for holidays or b-days unless I'm expected to. And otherwise, I don't usually give gifts. I also hate receiving gifts. But when the desire is there, I go ahead and give a gift.