I just want to add that I apologize in advance if anyone is offended by a post that can be read as cultural stereotyping and/or bias. I've certainly met my share of US guys who are sexual users and commitment phobes. My point was that there can be a cultural element in such situations, albeit that it was clumsily made.

I think the other point is that every person we date absolutely must respect our boundaries -- sexual and otherwise -- no matter what their race, religion, ethnicity, or country of national origin. Period.

As for the email address, if he is a doctor, or even in a medical profession, and deciphered it as you are questioning, could be in entered into it.

It can be tough to balance our needs for connection and our personal needs. But you have to take care of yourself. Good luck with this.