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I don't know who he is, and I feel like I've got no way of finding out.
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I think you said it right there yourself
Maybe there is pleasure when you are together - and that is valuable
But in terms of what this relationship means to you or to him - this is something that you might want to consider.
Hopefully, other people and interests are part of your life.
All the best to you