Shadix. You need to get off the ice or skate. you spend all your time observing others and interpreting what is going on with them. If i paid money to join a gym i would not be standing around watching who is talking to who. get interested in your own life and make a life for yourself. people are drawn to people who do that. stop trying to get into other's lives or work out what they are doing. become absorbed in your life - gym or work or study.

i was once working in a place where i was very busy and not at all interested in the social goings on because i had limited energy and needed it for work i was completely absorbed in. women then started asking me out