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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
There may be some people that judge and choose friends this way, I guess that may be true but the fact is wtf would you care about superficial stupid people like that? Worst case scenario, assuming it's true, think of it as filtering out all the worthless judgmental people that would be much of a friend in the first place because they'd never get to know the real you. NO loss there.
Besides, if this "friend" of yours is saying these kinds of things to you, I question whether or not she's one of those people anyway and maybe you need to find a better friend to talk to and listen to. *hugs*
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Thanks, yeah, you're right, I'm sure there are people out there who do choose their friends by how they look, etc...I don't want or need friends like that at all. I really don't think that she meant to be mean or judgmental at all. I think that she just made a silly assumption that might be the case. Apparently it doesn't matter to her as we've been friends for four or five years already, and she has been nicer to me than most people have to me most of the time.
She is also one of those rare people who will pick up the phone to talk to me and return my calls as soon as she can instead of ignoring me like most people do. It's not like I ever called them that much, so that really hurt me a lot when they used to pick up the phone, and then stopped doing so unless they needed me to listen to them talk about their issues, ugh! So selfish! Those so called friends are no longer in my life!