I am sorry to hear that he is treating you this way. I guess there was not much of a "honeymoon" period of time that I would expect in this type of situation. I am in no mental state to hive you advice. But please do not let this situation with The Jerk lower you self-esteem. He apparently has issues that he needs to deal with. Until he realizes this, well, I just hope this does not turn out to be what is normal in your relationship with him.

PS I am very happy to see you again!!!