Sometimes... Just because we have medication does not mean we are taking it, or taking it as directed.
I was feeling pretty good and decided to stop taking my meds. There are high functioning people on this forum who don't take meds. They meditate and all is well. I wanted to be like that.

But then I attacked my husband. I'm not going into details.

I'm just saying, if I was married to a bipolar, I would count their pills to make sure they are compliant. If they are being compliant but the meds aren't working, I would personally go in to talk to their doctor.

I'm sorry you are going through this. I'm sorry what my husband has gone through. I hope things get better for us all.