Hello, new here but need advice from male perspective please.
Yesterday I had good reason to think my boyfriend had innapropriate content on his phone. I checked and found My gut was right on. He had been following coworkers and videotaping their asses while they walked. There were videos of girls asses at the park, beach when we were together and while he is supposed to be doing homework at Starbucks. No faces, just asses. We normally are very open about sexual desire and trying an array of things in bed. We have made our own videos even. He understands that I am okay with porn and web pics of girls. This took it to another level making me feel sad and disappointed. I also found pictures of people we know, even my 22 year old daughter. Note: we have both been sexually abused as children. I confronted him and he was embarassed ashamed and depressed. He hasn't cheated on me and otherwise is a fantastic boyfriend. I understand that you have to have new material to get the next "high". But this to me is more strange, disgusting and beyond my comprehension.

What are your honest thoughts please. Thank you in advance.