Recently I broke up with my partner and jumped right back into dating. I met this extremely attractive woman. Beautiful body, very petite, clearly she works out. She's 43 years old but could easily pass for 35 yrs old. We had good conversation but a was little distant for me. I pretty much held up the conversation... My last partner was jealous and controlling. I did not like that but in some ways the attention was addictive. I love it when I know a person is totally into me.

That first date we talked but barely touched... no kissing. It ended with a side hug goodbye. Afterwards she texted saying she wanted to go out again and how she enjoyed the date. I thought must have been on a different date or something. We live about an hour and a half apart so the next time we could meet was a week later. This was followed by more texts ending with "my love", kissing emoticons, etc. I was confused but still very interested so I flirted back.

We set up a second date. When she arrived at my place she said it was too late to go out. We decided to watch movies on Netflix. We started kissing, no tongue. I stopped but then she started again same thing and then undressing. Long story short she had chest hairs. I was kind dark so I couldn't see but I could feel them. Very coarse patches over both nipples and in the very center of her chest. She also had a few under her lower lip. They were short like a guys 5 o'clock shadow. She sweats easily.

I faked an orgasm and made sure she was good but I was completely disgusted. I know thats wrong but it really freaked me out. Afterward she asked me if I enjoyed it. I didn't know what to say so I said yes. She was out for the night. Even if I had enjoyed it. My libido is much higher and I tend to get creative. I know even if she were hairless, we wouldn't be sexually compatible.

She claims to be totally into me. She's new to the state so she doesn't have an apartment. She has three kids. One is an adult and two minor daughters who live with the fathers. She struggling financially to get stable so she's renting a room with a family and is not allowed overnight visitors. Now she wants to spend weekends with me.

This is way too much too soon. Sexually we are not compatible. What do I tell her?