Single mother of an almost 12 year old... Being non-functional is not really an option, because her existence (and my widowed mom) forces me to get my butt out of bed in order to hold down a job...


I never thought I would describe myself as lucky to be working in the retail sector, but its been a Godsend in that I have off days during the week, so I can mentally check out while she's at school should I need to.


Her mere existence is the reason I made it to birthday number 31 this past weekend. No doubt I would've checked out by now, if not for her.


She's my guardian Angel


She's very intuitive and always knew her mommy was a lil crazy compared to other mommy's... And since we made an honesty pact when the sperm donor was told to exit, I have been up front about my dx and answer any questions she may have.


I told her in the most simplest of ways, well I kinda had to, she was only 6 and insisting I honor our pact.


I think parenting is difficult no matter which way you slice it. I also believe all parents, single or otherwise, should have a good support system in place. For breaks, date nights, or whatever... Having bipolar, I would just recommend your support system be solid and on board.


I don't think this dx should rob people of the joys of parenthood, unless of course you are so bad off that you need a full time care giver yourself.


Then it makes no sense to entertain being someone else's caregiver.


Especially not a child's, its a 24/7/365 day job, and you don't ever get to take off, misplace, lose, forget, or give away your mommy or daddy hat.


It's rewarding as ***** though, and probably the only reason I've managed so well.


Her well-being and happiness is my greatest motivator, it comes second to my challenges.