hmmm good question. A have three that I can think of.

1) I had been cutting. I had never done it before but we were discussing some very traumatic things. We were discussing things that hubby didn't know at the time. So I had nobody but T to talk to. It was my way of releasing the pain.

2) My alcohol drinking was getting out of hand.

3) Hubby and I were having intimacy issues. I mentioned it to T and I was trying to be vague and sort of beat around the bush. She was confused and right out told me. So I had to come out and say things that made me very uncomfortable. There had been other things going on and it just put me over the top. We dropped the conversation and have agreed eventually we may get back there.but right now is not the time.