I disclose the answers as honestly as I can based on what they ask. Usually it's where, how many times, did I try anything before hand, did it work, etc. I had a session today where she asked how the SH has been, I said not good. She asked where I did it, why I keep going back to the same spot to cut, did it need stitches, etc. I try to be honest as possible with my Ts, as I hide it from everyone else in my life, including hubby.