Thanks for sharing. How do you feel about spending time at your motherīs? Do you get along well with her?
I think itīs ok to go on a vacation together, for example a city weekend but to live under the same roof several weeks isnīt healthy and I personally feel itīs not that normal either.
You are lucky who can get back to studies in September, I canīt study anymore as I wonīt get any more study loans.
Perhaps itīs easier to find love when you once experienced it. I donīt know what loving a partner feels like, Iīve never felt it.
Was it a complicated termination, have you found a new T since then?
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Originally Posted by Neurotic 2 the bone
I can't tell you what I did as I'm in a very similar situation and also looking for answers.
I am spending part of my time at my mothers house for the summer. I was working but lost my job. I go back to university in September. I have lived a quiet isolated life with no real best friends, just acquaintances here and there. I did however have one true loving relationship in my life. One true passionate love. But now she is gone. Like you I'm not unattractive or anything like that, in fact just the opposite. But for some reason I never sought out a relationship. Anxiety issues mostly. Fortunately I did find love anyway. Or perhaps it found me. I guess my only advice to you is that sometimes we find what we're looking for when we least expect it. You never know what or who is around the corner so you can never give up.
I too was terminated by my therapist. I highly doubt for the same reasons as you but it ended nevertheless.
I too worry that my personality doesn't fit with the field I chose to study. I'm working towards a degree in psychology. But I do not know if I will be able to find employment due to my own psychological issues.
You are not alone.
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