I know nothing about relationships so will not comment on that!
I was selling myself as a teenager... I get so conflicted because I also understand the whole biological drive, that it isn't really a choice of what to be attracted to.... I like to think I have the whole liberal attitudes towards porn down...
And, it triggers me that guys do this. Actually, I get triggered even hearing about the attraction to teens, even when it isn't acted on in any illegal or legal way. And I know that this is wrong. But it bugs me... partly because I was that kid and partly because I want to know that now that I am older that I am still worth something...
There was an interesting doc on amateur porn... girls just starting out... it seemed quite real, not really there to shock but also showing some of the harsh realities of that life. Maybe show it to him and see if it will guilt him out of it!
No--terrible advice--the doc is probably too triggering for a lot of people but if anyone is interested, it is Hot Girls Wanted.
I just heard about it because there was an interview on Vice and the creator is someone I think is cool...
Anyway. I want to be liberal. My opinions are liberal. My feelings... But that lifestyle will **** up anyone.
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