Well, it's been about three weeks and my girlfriend has done so very good. She hasn't smoked marijuana once. I think she has realized that there are more important things in life and how much I care about her and can't continue a relationship with her unless she betters herself.

She came to me yesterday and told me how she was faced with the possibility of smoking again after such a long time and she made the right choice for herself and because of how much I mean to her. I was so proud of her.

I told her that now she see's how she was being controlled by something she felt she needed everyday but she really didn't because she's went so long now. Still a long way to go but there is promise for us. I truly love this woman with all my heart and I see myself with her for the rest of my life. After being in a loveless marriage for 7 years, it is good to find true love again. My heart hopes she can stay the course but I think she has made a huge step in the right direction. I'm sure there may be a lapse coming because she still has to get through her biggest hurdle and that's her friends night but she is doing well.