Sometimes you have to keep calling your doctor, ask for a referral for a new doctor, or just make an appointment. If you haven't been to the ER yet you should try. I know it's extremely frustrating. You feel so alone and neglected. You are hurting but no one will listen. I had back surgery in March, and it was a piece of cake compared to what I went through before it. Sometimes all you can do is cry it hurts so bad. Keep reaching out, sooner or later someone will take responsibility and help you. Don't try to be brave when you see your doctor.