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Originally Posted by Axiom
I'm the same way except it's my mother and she's alive. I won't say the worst things she's done to me because it would make me feel really bad about myself. It's understandable, especially since your father has passed away and we're supposed to treat our parents and people who have passed with respect. But in my defense I don't think it's essential that my therapist knows absolutely everything, it's enough for me that she knows I had a difficult childhood.  |
i feel this way too, about not wanting to tell everything. my t doesnt push me either. he patiently waits for me to talk about this on my own time, which is going on 5 years now. soemtimes i wish he would push me a little, because im a master avoider. but sometimes i just want to leave it be in the past where it belongs. but is it affecting me here, today? probably.