I've been at home unable to drive, work, etc., for over 11 years, because of a health condition. My relative inactivity has added roughly 70 LBS. I do exercise, not all the time, but I'm not totally inactive. My marriage is the pits; with my weight gain plus the medical condition my husband isn't attracted to me anymore. I don't eat much crap at all, and I can't seem to get enough exercise to lose anything. My self-image sucks.